Long Time No Write!

Well, i never realised maintaining a blog could be this much work, urgh! don't get me wrong i love to write but the last time i checked in, i was very single and now am a fully married woman, i dont know what that means probably am insisting on how married i am ;-)!

Marriage life is awesome and interesting. You get to live with someone you love dearly, you grow together and learn each others bad habits (he has more) and live with it! Okay, you get to compromise as well, its not easy, especially if you are already mature and aged, OK what i mean is you are not in your 20-25 stage where you are still finding yourself (there are mature 20-25's, no protests please).

Which brings me to another topic, ladies please do not ever, i mean ever, marry a guy who is still finding himself, same applies to guys, NOT a good idea. That doesn't apply to material acquisition, a guy maybe struggling financially but he knows who he is already. Being a husband means you become a leader, and being a wife means you become a comforter and helper (even if you are a CEO/MD/Manager).

As a wife you are now the manager of your home, all the creatives have a good time here. You  take care of your man, yourself, home and by God's grace your kids, not an easy job. But that's what being a wife is all about, and you enjoy life. So when you get this dude who is still finding himself, the journey will be even harder, coz you will also need someone to be man enough to help you once in awhile. So imagine you need your man around and all he ever thinks about is himself! It will be horrible if you the guy, need someone to be there for you, to have your back as you lead your home and your girl is only thinking about herself.

Well, i can say a mouthful about this ministry, it is not an institute, but in time i will, i have to have things to talk about, right!

It's been fun and am looking forward to much more fun, there will be hurdles along the way, but always leave it to God, He'll sort you out. Marriages are truly under attack but we shall make it, by God's grace.

Glad to be back and looking forward to upload more stuff. Am into cooking now (always was) and recipes is one thing I shall be handling as well. I cant wait! Cheerio